LIVING CODE 12: LIVE ASSURED (10/15)
Self-Obsession + Dullness = Withdrawn
When I loop inward or drift away from life, energy folds in on itself. Self-obsession and dullness both close the circuit. “Withdrawn” is that quiet numb space where I forget how to simply be.
When awareness folds inward or fades out, I lose contact with life. Self-obsession overthinks; dullness under-feels. Withdrawn is the pause between those extremes—energy hidden but still alive.
Naturalness + Magnetism = Allow → Available
The remedy is to allow. Allowing means loosening control so life can re-enter. Naturalness returns when I stop forcing myself to be interesting; magnetism reappears when I let authenticity breathe. Allowing restores movement without effort.
The shift begins when I allow. Allowing means I stop managing myself and let life move again. Naturalness returns as I quit forcing it; magnetism reappears as I drop performance. Allowing is how presence breathes.
Being + Fluorescence = Assured
As allowance deepens, I open again. Being is effortless existence; fluorescence is its gentle glow. I become available—to feel, to connect, to love. From that availability arises assurance: the calm knowing that I am enough as I am.
When permission ripens into being, I open. Fluorescence is that open glow—life shining through. I become available, receptive to love and truth. From there, assurance arises: quiet confidence in my own existence.
So the lived equation becomes:
When I feel withdrawn, I allow and become available so I live assured.
